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July 25, 2009

Leave Demi Lovato Alone!

Star magazine recently printed photographs of Demi Lovato and a story about how she's allegedly been self-mutilating. The article "Is Demi Cutting Again?" suggests that the Disney actress/singer has been cutting her wrists because she is stressed about her show Sonny with a Chance:

"She's not getting enough downtime because there is so much work involved, and she's always being pulled in different directions." Unfortunately, that constant pressure may lead to destructive behavior.

"Cutting is how she can let go of the stress that has built up inside — when she cuts herself, it's a way to cope," explains Dr. Jennifer Austin Leigh, a San Francisco–based psychologist who specializes in treating teenagers. But there is hope, adds Dr. Leigh, who has not treated the actress. Besides counseling, Demi "needs to surround herself with family and friends who will have a positive impact on her." [Star]

Just to be clear, Dr. Leigh is not Demi's doctor. Her description of self-mutilation and its causes is probably correct, but she is in no position to make claims about Demi in particular. Oh and the source of this story is described simply as "a source" so we know that they're totally credible.

I think stories like this one - which has been repeated every fucking where - are wrong for two reasons:

One -

We don't know if it's actually true. I doubt the authenticity of the story and the photos. Why? Because tabloids are always known for being totally completely truthful and unbiased and reliable and accurate!! I won't go so far as to suggest that the photos are doctored - although I wouldn't put it past Star - but I do think the images are not clear enough to make such a leap as to Demi Lovato's mental status.

If the photos are correct, it still doesn't prove that she is self-mutilating. There are so many ways she could've gotten those marks. (Does Demi Lovato have a cat?) Also, knowing that she is so much in the public eye - her show Sonny with a Chance is the #1 in its timeslot right now and she's about to go on tour with David Archuleta - wouldn't she perhaps cut herself in a less visible area? And wouldn't her handlers - knowing that the tabloids have already speculated about this issue in the past - make sure her wrists were covered?

Lillian Matulic, Demi's rep, described the allegations as "completely false".

Two -

If this is true... is it really our business? If the rumors are true and this is Demi's response to too much stress, isn't it kind of fucked up that we're reading about it as if it's news? If she's really stressed enough to self-mutilate, then isn't tabloid gossip going to make it worse? She's 16 years old - she's a child - this is not our business. This is not news that we should be reading in a tabloid. This should not be fodder for blogs and polls.

The media is always all over young celebs - like Miley Cyrus - for basically being teenagers with the bad fortune to be massively famous. However, that talk is usually about "naughty" things that the celebs have allegedly done. This on the other hand, is very different. This isn't an inappropriate picture or an offhand comment. This is gossip about a potentially serious problem. It's just plain wrong. Demi Lovato is the perfect example of what Disney wants their products, ...er stars... to be. She's a squeaky clean "good girl" - no scandals, no rumors of drugs or sex. If she truly is going through a really hard time and struggling with self abuse - then why are we tearing her down even further?

Leave her alone! Yes she's a celebrity, but she's also a child. Write all you want about her career or her love life, but if she truly is dealing with a potentially dangerous condition then let's not make it worse. So shut the fuck up already!

For more information and support about self-injury: TWLOHA.com or SIsupport


Steph Infection said...

I agree!!

Briana said...

Agreed. It's like honestly, STFU. Even though I really dislike celebrities/teen idol stars and what they represent, I think it's sad how people just scrutinize them like they're animals at the zoo. (I don't like going to the zoo, to be honest.)

BUT on the other hand, I think this is happening to Demi Lovato because she's being marketed as the dark, rebellious punk type. It's a whole horse and pony show. They've got her doing photoshoots and videos with different pop-punk bands and 'fighting rumors' of going out with a 'way older, tattooed bad boy' every five seconds. I feel sorry for her...but then again not. This is fame, you know?


Since when is Demi Lovato marketed as a "dark, rebellious punk type"?

"I feel sorry for her...but then again not. This is fame, you know?"

No, I don't know. She's famous... but she's also a child. I don't think the medical/psychological issues of any celebrities are our business, but especially not those of children (particularly since those children didn't always necessarily chose fame on their own anyway).

FEMily! said...

Demi Lovato is like Miley Cyrus' foil in the magical world of Disney. Basically, she likes black metal and wears a leather jacket sometimes.

Anyway, it is really tasteless that the entertainment media is exploiting her mental illness (or completely making one up) to sell magazines. They're doing the same with Mischa Barton, who was involuntarily committed to the psych ward of Cedars-Sinai recently for being suicidal. It's disgusting. If they really wanted to help, they would get off the backs of these stressed-out young women.

Anna said...

You know, maybe, instead of making up these stories (or popularising them, if they are true), all these people who read about and make these things sensational should go out and actually volunteer at teen shelters and mental health centres so they see that this is not something that should be exploited and that it isn't funny when you have had to deal with it in your family. Seeing things sensationalised like this just makes me sick. There are reasons I don't pick up these publications...mental illness is not a game and they treat it like it is, using it for sport to sell papers, whether false or true.

wendi said...

Oh, I love a post that ends with "so shut the fuck up already." Love this site.

Wendi Aarons